Mom to daughter problems ?
My mom really sucks at speakin english and I am not really fluent in speakin laos & I am scared to speak it in public ! so I always get aggrivated wit her. it's really hard to talk to her. like if I'm goin to go to a friends house or somethin. she always gets it wrong :(. she's total asian man she knows like really lil english ! I feel embarassed & she has like. thyroid disease and early signs of arthirtitis I think from what I hear.. I am her only daughter and my brothers they don't won't help her.. :( so I always got to help her. sometimes I feel like sucha biatch I don't help her out enough or I am just bein` too much like I get what I want too much or somethin (is it bad to be spoiled?) well I felt guilty so I cleaned her benz.. I was just wonderin' what should I do to get close wit' my mom and the whole illness thing .. = /
User Comments
- Be proud of you mother, help her as much as you can. Remember , she is the one that is there for you when you need her..And learn the language..Its a good thing to know , you will appreciate her and your heritage more when you are older.. don't blow it.
- Why don't you try to learn laos? She's your mom, what language did she speak raising you? My husband is Arab and he has alot of friends who are arab and only speak arabic, so I learned arabic. You have to find some way to communicate.
- Don't be embarrassed, why should you be it's apart of your culture. In case you haven't noticed your mom may be sensitive to the way you treat her. You should really be good to her think of all she has sacrificed to give you the quality of life you have. Humble yourself and be proud of her for being your mother, one who has provided for you, and has been proud of you despite whatever she feels isn't her standard have you ever thought that maybe she may be ashamed that you have become so accustomed to western culture that she's embarrassed, you have no Asian discipline or cultural trait and awareness.